By Dr. Shaina A. Nez

“That is the future we choose. Free nations have a duty to defend our people by uniting against the violent. And tonight, as we have done before, America and our allies accept that responsibility. Good night, and may God continue to bless America.” - George W. Bush (2003)

All free nations have been in a domestic violent relationship with the United States

Why don’t they just leave?

All free nations have been isolated from their families and friends, psychologically beaten down, financially controlled, and physically threatened

Why don’t they just leave?

All free nations have been deciding whether to stay or leave, we feel confused, uncertain, frightened, and torn we hope hope hope the situation changes or we are afraid of how the United States will react if they discover that we’re trying to leave them.

The only thing that matters is your safety.

Signs that your abuser is not changing:

They minimize the abuse or deny how serious it was. They continue to blame others for their behavior.

Remember:

We are not to blame for being battered or mistreated. We are not the cause of the United States abusive behavior. We deserve to be treated with respect. We deserve a safe and happy life. Our children and our children’s children deserve a safe and happy life.